From: The Marriage Clinic (Gottman, J.M.)

Do you know your partner’s psychological world? 

You can add more questions to this list.

Love Map questions measure the amount of cognitive room you have inside your head for your partner.

Knowing the answers to these questions will bring you a deeper emotional connection.

1 Does your partner have a secret ambition? What is it?

2 What is your partner’s favourite animal?

3 Name your partner’s major rival or enemy

4 What is one of your partner’s hobbies?

5 What are some of your partner’s favourite ways to work out?

6 What is your partner’s major fear?

7 Who is your partner’s least favourite relative?

8 What does your partner like to do best with time off?

9 What is your partner’s favourite flower?

10 What foods does your partner hate?

11 What is your partner currently most sad about?

12 What is one of your partner’s concerns or worries?

13 What is the date of your anniversary?

14 What is your partner’s favourite vacation?

15 What makes your partner feel most competent?

16 What is your partner’s favourite sport to watch?

17 What is your partner’s favourite meal?

18 What is your partner’s favourite song?

19 Where was your partner born?

20 What is one of your partner’s favourite movies?